What shall i do for my bday?

my birthday is 22nd october and i dont no what to do. I am really annoyed cos they wont let me go out with my friends, they told me to make friends at college and i am not allowed to go out with them for my bday. They always decide what they want to do on my bday abd wont let me decide for myself. I am going to be 17 and they treat me like a child. They think i am a lone but i am not r and all my life they have forced me into doing things i dont want to do. but i really want to do something exciting with my friends since i have never had any in my life but they think i am being strange and want to go to haven holiday camp to see rory the tiger. Do they think im 6 or something?? I just want to go somewhere with my friends and somewhere i can celebrate my bday. I feel sick and tired of what they want to do when i dont tell them what to do on my bday. One day i am wishing I could have a big party and I know I would never treat my kids the same.